When I was really down I felt helpless, like I had to just sit listen, agree, plead, hate myself, worry… It seems I have had my reflection period this time way quicker then normal.
It turns out that now I have my strength back i.e. Happiness, self-awareness, a clear MIND for fuck sake, I now realize all the things certain people (including family) have done to upset me… Some of which have upset me much more than I have ever upset them, so why the fuck am I always so sorry?
Why do we crawl back to people who don’t deserve it and back down when we are in the right JUST because we are at our weakest? We all know wrong from right and the simple fact is, some people just don’t deserve you, I believe in second chances, but three strikes your out. (This doesn’t really apply in relationships unless the person has fucked up something chronic three times)
Now when a certain idiot decide to be rude to you, (We are all guilty sometimes, just some of us are worse than others) upset you, snap at you, bitch at you, raise their voice for no reason, they are making that choice! They are not puppets, no strings are being pulled and they need to learn how to respect people, how to have discipline and self-control.
Now if your anything like me when you are crazy angry it doesn’t matter who crosses you, who’s around (even my boss) you’re the same towards them all and apologize in advance for your moody face, but that was then and this is now and now is the time to take control, more importantly to realise that words are very powerful, don’t hurt people when they don’t deserve it.
Sometimes you have to sit tight and observe the person in questions movements and how they talk, address and react towards others. If you notice the person is NOT treating others like they are you, there is a problem!
The easiest way of explaining this is DICK HEAD FACTOR, some people have like a 1/3 of their brain running on this very destructive and unhealthy input (Like a giant sim card in their skull!), these are people who manipulate, control, belittle, blame and don’t generally take responsibility for their lives and actions.
My personal advice is to address these people about all of their crazy little issues and if they care about you, they will listen and come correct. If this DICK HEAD continues to carry out there destructive behaviour, cut them out and never look back because you know you are BETTER then that and if someone else was telling you about a similar situation you would tell them to FUCK THEM OFF. So now is the time to take our own advice!
Be strong enough to not need anyone, wanting people is great and normal and especially when you KNOW they are worthy and add value to your life, you should only NEED people when they are the best, especially when LOVE is involved, this way you will never be left lonely because you will always have yourself.
YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT YOU GOT TIL ITS GONE, FROM FRIENDSHIPS TO RELATIONSHIPS, THEY FUCKED UP, TOO BAD, IT’S THEIR LOSS AND YOU KNOW IT!
So if you are a certified Queen or King, don’t reshuffle the pack… As you might end up with a Joker! = ]
I rest my case…
WE DESERVE BETTER THEN THAT!
DONT SETTLE FOR LESS THEN YOU’RE WORTH!
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